The holidays are a fun time for all --- and if you’re over 40, then it’s going to be sort of different. The kids are now probably in their teens and don’t look up to midnight with the same wonder, you may be concerned how much work you’re missing over the break, or, you could be feeling your age.
What can you do? Well, the description of the “sad” holiday above is how a pessimistic person might view the holidays --- and you’re not that, aren’t you? Your kids are lovable sweet little angels, your family comes first before work and you’ve never felt better! Here’s how you can have that perfect little “over 40” holiday.
Savor Every Moment – It’s a cliché, but are you spending the holidays looking at old photo albums, or thinking about older holidays? Remembering is nice and all, but a wave of nostalgia actually holds us back from looking forward. The moment you wake up from sleep --- before moving, think how lucky you are to be awake at THAT moment. Be thankful. This makes each and every “over 40” holiday even more special.
Go All Out – I think I can trace this back from my upbringing. No matter the circumstance, we would celebrate the holidays the BIGGEST way possible. A humble dinner with all your favorite meals would be enough. It’s not about being extravagant --- people deserve what they earn. You are over 40 and CAN provide for your family --- why not go all out this holiday?
F.W.F.F. – Fun with Friends and Family. You are only as big as how big people think of you. Think about it --- you must’ve been nice for a reason. It’s the golden rule: do unto others … etc. Think about your long-lost friends, or family you hardly get to talk to. Give them a call, or leave a note on their social network wall. (Yes, I did just figure that one out … thanks to my kid!) Do you still even send out holiday cards? Write a personal note to someone you’ve lost touch with, build a little group for you and your friends in your favorite social network; organize an exchange gift. Treasure your beautiful family.
Give – There’s this new “emotion” that’s being called elevation --- which is a glowing feeling, resulting as a reaction from moral beauty. Nothing can be more beautiful than to be giving. Encourage/teach your kids the beauty of altruistic acts --- and they will teach the same to their children. Give back by donating to a charity, or, in as simple a way as leaving a little tip for your house help, or the garbage man.
Smile – Be kind. Be nice. You’re over 40! You made it! Enjoy the holidays, from my family to yours.
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